Pull in PT 2.5.1 upstream changes

pytorch/pytorch@v2.5.0...v2.5.1

Squashed new commits are as follows:
* update getting started xpu (pytorch#138090)
* [Cherry-Pick] Use cuda 12.4 pytorch_extra_install_requirements as default (pytorch#138526)
* Don't try to load cufile (pytorch#138539)
* Add link to torch.compile the missing manual in troubleshooting (pytorch#137369)
* Update cpuinfo submodule (pytorch#138600)
* Update doc copyrights to 2024 (pytorch#138650)
* [SDPA-CUDNN] Make CuDNN Attention Opt in (pytorch#138587)
* [MPS] Fix sliced cast (pytorch#138535)
* Disabling amp context when invoking compiler (pytorch#138659)

Change-Id: I3e282e8b4809b97b38605420c64d1bd1b0b938aa

Author: internal developer

.github/scripts/generate_binary_build_matrix.py

@@ -451,7 +451,7 @@ def generate_wheels_matrix(
                             ".", "_"
                         ),
                         "pytorch_extra_install_requirements": (
-                            PYTORCH_EXTRA_INSTALL_REQUIREMENTS["12.1"]  # fmt: skip
+                            PYTORCH_EXTRA_INSTALL_REQUIREMENTS["12.4"]  # fmt: skip
                             if os != "linux" and gpu_arch_type != "xpu"
                             else ""
                         ),