Update native prebuilds to match actually used versions

[achou11]

We download native prebuilds that are used by the backend as part of build process to avoid needing to build them locally. Unfortunately, our approach is prone to getting out of date with what's specified by the backend. In most cases, it's probably not going to be much of an issue in terms what happens at runtime, but it could definitely become the source of issues if we're not at least somewhat diligent about keeping things aligned.

As of ffb4809, here's the current status of what we use vs what is wanted:

Name	Current	Wanted
better-sqlite3	8.7.0	8.7.0
crc-native	1.0.11	1.1.1
fs-native-extensions	1.2.3	1.2.7
quickbit-native	2.2.0	2.3.1
simdle-native	1.2.0	1.3.1
sodium-native	4.0.4	4.2.0
udx-native	1.7.12	no longer wanted

Action items based on the above:

• remove the inclusion of udx-native
• update everything else but better-sqlite3 (for now)
• (maybe) add a script that checks this for us