Migrate memref dialect to IndexedAccessOpInterface

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• [mlir] Implement indexed access op interfaces for memref, vector, gpu, nvgpu llvm/llvm-project#177014
• [mlir] Add [may]updateStartingPosition to VectorTransferOpInterface llvm/llvm-project#177015
• [mlir][MemRef] Make fold-memref-alias-ops use memref interfaces llvm/llvm-project#177016
• Implement this interface for AMDGPU dialect ops
• Migrate other memref transforms to the interface
• Drop some dependencies from Memref that didn't need to be there