Update optimized lib to build on Windows

ghstack-source-id: 9189f29
ghstack-comment-id: 3208323478
Pull-Request: #13564

Author: GregoryComer

.github/workflows/build-presets.yml

@@ -109,7 +109,7 @@ jobs:
     strategy:
       fail-fast: false
       matrix:
-        preset: [windows] # TODO (gjcomer) Re-enable pybind once functional
+        preset: [pybind, windows]
     with:
       job-name: build
       ref: ${{ github.event_name == 'pull_request' && github.event.pull_request.head.sha || github.sha }}
@@ -127,7 +127,7 @@ jobs:
           conda activate et
 
           python install_requirements.py
-          cmake --preset ${{ matrix.preset }}
+          cmake --preset ${{ matrix.preset }} -T ClangCL
           if (\$LASTEXITCODE -ne 0) {
             Write-Host "CMake configuration was unsuccessful. Exit code: \$LASTEXITCODE."
             exit \$LASTEXITCODE

tools/cmake/preset/pybind.cmake

@@ -25,8 +25,10 @@ set_overridable_option(EXECUTORCH_BUILD_EXTENSION_TRAINING ON)
 
 if(CMAKE_SYSTEM_NAME STREQUAL "Darwin")
   set_overridable_option(EXECUTORCH_BUILD_COREML ON)
+  set_overridable_option(EXECUTORCH_BUILD_EXTENSION_TRAINING ON)
 elseif(CMAKE_SYSTEM_NAME STREQUAL "Linux")
   set_overridable_option(EXECUTORCH_BUILD_COREML ON)
+  set_overridable_option(EXECUTORCH_BUILD_EXTENSION_TRAINING ON)
 elseif(CMAKE_SYSTEM_NAME STREQUAL "Windows" OR CMAKE_SYSTEM_NAME STREQUAL
                                                "WIN32"
 )