Track actor-lifecycle skipped test for destroy-during-start onDestroy behavior

[NathanFlurry]

DT-029 adds skip annotations for rivetkit-typescript/packages/rivetkit/tests/driver/actor-lifecycle.test.ts.

Tracked skip:

• onDestroy is called even when actor is destroyed during start

Expected closure condition:

• Root-cause whether destroy-during-start should still run onDestroy, then either fix the runtime and unskip the test or replace the test with the correct invariant.
• Verify with the full actor-lifecycle.test.ts driver file under the supported matrix.

[linear]

RVT-6228