Deprecate `message_with_options` and `send_with_options`

[mehdigmira]

Motivation

message_with_options and send_with_options cannot be type checked by python static type checkers today. Type checking is starting to become a major topic in the Python realm, so it is important this is addressed

Proposal

• Deprecate message_with_options and send_with_options
• Add 2 new method to Message

 
class Message(Generic[T]):

    ...

    def with_options(self) -> Message[T]:
        ...

    def send(self) ->  None:
        ...

So actor.send_with_options(args=[1, 2], kwargs={"foo": 3}, max_retries=5) becomes actor.message(1, 2, foo=3).with_options(max_retries=5).send()