fix: add isReadOnly props and useRenderProps

[Mr-Heidari]

Closes #8809

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[Mr-Heidari]

Hello, I've added the isReadOnly property . in this issue #6151 I've also seen some other components where we can apply the props that were discussed. If you approve, I can fix those as well.

[LFDanLu]

@Mr-Heidari that would be amazing, thanks! As shown in #6151 I think making sure the components that support the isReadOnly prop have the equivalent in their renderProps/data-attributes will be sufficient for now.

[yihuiliao]

thanks for the PR! i'd like to get this in so if you'd like to add isReadOnly to the other components, we can do that in a separate PR