fix(operator): Return quickstart script to working condition and improve rootless usage

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What this PR does / why we need it:

• Updates some components of the quickstart setup to newer versions
• Fixes issues caused by quickstart component updates
• Uses TLS for internal communication
• Moves to non-privileged host ports to make it possible to use with rootless containers (for example Podman)
• Fixes the issue that make quickstart will try to build&push an image and updates the instructions accordingly

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

Special notes for your reviewer:

• Still marked as draft because I am still investigating a connection issue in the setup
• Need to look through the docs and scripts again to see if they need adjustment (mostly for the new ports)

Checklist

• Reviewed the CONTRIBUTING.md guide (required)
• Documentation added
• Title matches the required conventional commits format, see here

[JoaoBraveCoding]

Apart from the open conversation LGTM

[JoaoBraveCoding]