new kernel bugfix

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What type of PR is this?
/kind bug

What this PR does / why we need it:
After the ads mode adopts the new kernel modification solution, some adaptability work is not fully considered and needs to be fixed:
1.bpf2go files no longer distinguish between enhanced and unenhanced, sockops files are now always required
2.In the sockops hook point, it is necessary to determine whether it is managed by kmesh. Previously, the sockops hook point added to the ko file would come in and set the state_cb tag》The is_kmesh_manage function of sockops in the workload is mentioned in kmesh_common.h

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:
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