wip: use bookworm and upgrade require packages

[rahulinux]

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4968 tests run: 4804 passed, 0 failed, 164 skipped (full report)

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Flaky tests (3)

Postgres 17

• test_scrubber_physical_gc[4]: release-x86-64
• test_tenant_config: debug-x86-64

Postgres 16

• test_slots_and_branching: release-arm64

Code coverage* (full report)

• functions: 31.8% (7419 of 23306 functions)
• lines: 49.8% (59605 of 119770 lines)

* collected from Rust tests only

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