module: add dynamic file-specific ESM warnings

[mertcanaltin]

I improved the error message to include specific file and package.json details, trying to make it clearer and more actionable as requested in the TODO

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 88.88889% with 2 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 89.04%. Comparing base (3fe8027) to head (2f8aeb6).
Report is 274 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
src/node_process_events.cc	66.66%	1 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage   89.19%   89.04%   -0.16%     
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  Files         662      665       +3     
  Lines      191893   193420    +1527     
  Branches    36937    37281     +344     
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+ Hits       171164   172222    +1058     
- Misses      13573    13880     +307     
- Partials     7156     7318     +162     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
src/node_contextify.cc	80.74% <100.00%> (-0.63%)	⬇️
src/node_process_events.cc	59.09% <66.66%> (+0.07%)	⬆️

... and 158 files with indirect coverage changes

[mertcanaltin]

Could this be flakky? but tests to my local is success https://github.com/nodejs/node/actions/runs/12811945783/job/35722483892?pr=56628

[mertcanaltin]

The issue was that v8::String::NewFromUtf8 expected a const char*, but a std::string_view was passed. Converted using .data() and explicit length (cast to int). Special thanks to @addaleax for the help!

[nodejs-github-bot]

CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/65272/

[jasnell]

The CI failures are relevant to this change. Looks like a test that needs fixing up and some lint issues to resolve.

[mertcanaltin]

The CI failures are relevant to this change. Looks like a test that needs fixing up and some lint issues to resolve.

thanks, I updated

[github-actions]

Failed to start CI

   ⚠  Something was pushed to the Pull Request branch since the last approving review.
   ✘  Refusing to run CI on potentially unsafe PR

https://github.com/nodejs/node/actions/runs/13406809365

[nodejs-github-bot]

CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/65315/

[mertcanaltin]

lint seems to be warning about the use order but my local cpp-linter says everything is working fine

13:06:32 using statements aren't sorted in 'src/node_process_events.cc'.
13:06:32 	Line 17: Actual: v8::Nothing, Expected: v8::NewStringType
13:06:32 	Line 18: Actual: v8::Object, Expected: v8::Nothing
13:06:32 	Line 19: Actual: v8::String, Expected: v8::Object
13:06:32 	Line 20: Actual: v8::Value, Expected: v8::String
13:06:35 	Line 21: Actual: v8::NewStringType, Expected: v8::Value
13:06:35 make: *** [Makefile:1549: tools/.cpplintstamp] Error 1