Fix the bug that the router may block forever when the sending queue is full #1157

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build (x64, release, windows-2019, ON, ON, Visual Studio 16 2019, v142, vs2019, v142-x64, ON)	5m 43s
build (ubuntu-latest, default, asciidoctor, disabled, select)	2m 51s
build (ubuntu-latest, default, disabled, poll)	2m 29s
build (ubuntu-latest, android, disabled)	3m 14s
build (ubuntu-latest, coverage, libkrb5-dev libnorm-dev libpgm-dev libgnutls28-dev lcov, enabled,...	3m 14s
build (ubuntu-latest, valgrind, valgrind libgnutls28-dev, enabled)	8m 17s
build (ubuntu-latest, cmake, libsodium, enabled, cmake libsodium-dev, enabled)	4m 37s
build (ubuntu-latest, cmake, enabled, cmake clang-format-11, 1)	56s
build (ubuntu-latest, default, libkrb5-dev libnorm-dev libpgm-dev libgnutls28-dev libsodium-dev l...	5m 36s
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build (ubuntu-latest, abi-compliance-checker, abi-dumper abi-compliance-checker, disabled)	3m 13s
build (ubuntu-latest, cmake, clang-tidy clang-tools, enabled, clang++)	4m 33s
build (macos-latest, default, automake autoconf, enabled)	3m 56s
build (macos-latest, default, automake autoconf libsodium, libsodium, disabled)	3m 58s
cron	0s
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