[CUDAExtension] Support dlink and dlink_libraries args for compatibility

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Support dlink and dlink_libraries args for compatibility
对齐 torch 对 dlink 的支持情况，给 CUDAExtension 处理了 dlink 和 dlink_libraries 两个参数，搭配之前 #76532 的 extra_compile_args 中的 nvcc_dlink 设置

和 Torch 一样只支持了 Linux 系统。
Torch 在 cpp_extension.py 支持了两者后端: ninja 和 standard distutils，在 ninja 后端支持了 dlink.
Paddle 在 distutils 的基础上，patch 了一些自定义方法，在 host 侧链接之前，进行 relocatable device code linking

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